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Saturday, 23 July 2011

Deaths' of celebrities

so... amy winehouse is dead... why is this more talked about than the norwegian massacre?? more people died, surely that means alot more than one person?? think of so many families.

alot of us, more than not, did not know amy winehouse personally, heck, we dont know ALOT of dead celebrities personally, why do so many people act like it was their best friend or family that had died?? all you know is what you have read or heard or seen via pap pics.

yes they are human but what i do not understand is that we hear in the news all the time that other people have died because of massacres or murders etc, but why does the world not react in the same way??

alot of times, the celebrities have gotten themselves an early grave by how they themselves abuse their bodies, should we really feel more sorry for them than others who have done nothing to give themselves an early grave except from the fact they were at the wrong place at the wrong time???

and what about doctors?? who save people, why are they not celebrated???

Thursday, 14 July 2011

Friendships vs. work...

Well i have just finished Uni and have been thrown into adult life... i work 6 days a week, from 4pm till 11.30/12am and have also moved to a new location.

Although everything is fine, i am finding it hard to make friends with this certain schedule... the only day i have free is tuesdays and even that is taken up by seeing old friends or family or actually just having time for myself.

I wonder if any of you also have such a problem with your lives?? and if so, how do you go about it??

how did you all start finding friends in your busy lives etc?? did you go online? did you join groups in your area??

Monday, 11 July 2011

Relationships

Hi again everyone :D

so this time, my topic is Relationships!!! Boyfriends, girlfriends, wives, husbands etc.

Well what spurred this was what with me finishing uni, i have just started a long distance relationship with my boyfriend, we used to live together at uni and its been about a month now apart and we only get to see each other about once every two weeks, and by once, i mean one day only.

my question to you is, what are your thoughts?? are long distance relationships able to be done?? if so, what kind of foundation does it have to be on?? do any of you have long distance relationships?? i would love to hear about them :)

Kazra, x
Graduation

been a long while since iv written anything but thought i should get back into so hi again bloggers :)

SOooo, its that time of year again when parents are supposed to be proud and weepy and people graduate from college/uni etc. For me personally this year, i finally get to graduate from my university in England, for me, its just about getting my most important family members together to celebrate a milestone in my life, also being the second in my family and first in my generation to graduate, its quite big for us.

unfortunately as my mother and grandad passed away not long after i started uni, i cannot have them coming apart from in spirit, and what with my grandmother not really being able to fly over, i will be going with my closest aunt, dad and brother. with a simple meal and Kung Fu Panda2, for celebrations after.

unfortunately in the UK, it is very strict where we have to wear only black and white clothing whilst i think in america you can wear anything right??

so basically, i just wanted to share my graduation with everyone and ask if they are also graduating, what are you all going to be doing?? are you wearing anything special?? doing anything particularly good??

congratulations to all and for those who havent graduated yet, hope your's is awesome when it comes :D

Kazra. x

Wednesday, 30 June 2010

Friends??

OK so we all have friends but i was just wondering, what is it that makes these people our friends? what is it that makes them go from accquaintances to being friends? and how do you know that you are true friends with them?? or do you beleive that there are different types of friends?? would you rather have alot of friends but not be close with them, or only a few close friends that you always hang out with??
Also what makes you think that a friendship is worth fighting for or letting go of??

It was just something that popped into my head so if you can, try answer some of the questions i have posed as i would love to see from different peoples points of views :)